Sexuality

Sexuality and Stress

 Answer in your very own words, when all stressed out, on the verge, if sexual life could be gratifying?
 If you replied yeas with all due sincerity then the best regards to ya, once it means that, you and your partner are able to keep things well apart.  If you answered no instead, not to worry you just part of the vast majority of people whom faced with problems, whatever that is, undergoes certain libido rebound and hence, itís normal that they donít feel like getting laid and/or couldnít care less about sexual indulgence.
 Mind you that several could be the causes likely to drive someone all worked up, overboard. Redundancy, work strains (overly meetings, clientele shortage, fierce competition in the job market, frictions with high ranked staff and work mates), change in settings or trade. 
 Family issues (rough edges within marriage, divorce, and having a hard time coping with kids), illnesses, financial matters, mortgage, house building or refurbishing, all work no play; to name a few, are examples for the casual hurdles of ilk on the regular basis. 
 Itís reasoned that the individual, hence the name, is unique, and so too, the way in which each one reacts to all of that or some such instances is a particularity.
 Anyone seeking aide from health experts, if the sexual context isnít brought across, one might as well expect to get questioned in regards by some attentive staff. Thatís because when someone is not happy, not in good terms with oneself, sexual life would be in tatters most likely, itís only a matter of time.
 A few tips could prove helpful to fight off stress and get on with life. The first and foremost would be planning. Just like back at work wherein everything gets logged on for the sake of sparing time and dues, schedule that routine.
 Spare some time with yourself though. There might be a good massage session or going to the gym. Place aside some special occasion for the loved-one, a dinner or lunch for two would go a long way.
 If sickness happens to be the problem (self or a close friendís), itís fundamental to be well clued up treatment wise, then in certain cases itís considered relevant to have the follow up from a psychologist apart from the doctor in charge, so that, support can be sought at times of hardship.
 As for the psychologist or psychiatrist (who else could prescribe most appropriate medicine), such backing could be reached when needed most.  Reach out for yourself, so that, the way forward can be unveiled to cope with stress.
 So much for sex, the best tip is ďrelax and cumĒ. Thatís right, forget about nags and turn sex into a joyful moment, as blissful, for rejoice and self-indulgence. Use your imagination if needed. Getting relaxed after some good shag is another excellent medicine against daily concerns.
 Do not forget that certain moments are priceless, timeless. Life and sex both meant to be lived up with indulgence in all its intensity.
           
Kelly Cristine Barbosa Cherulli
Sexologist


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